I. Am. Extra. They say for some people you will always be too bold, talk too loud or too much, be too hyper and too over the top. That is just how you might describe me if you knew me. In fact, one of my best friends from childhood told me one day while we were grabbing coffee outside of a Starbucks in the small central Illinois town we grew up in that she could “only handle so much Tosha at one time.” I remember, when she said it, thinking to myself “I. Am. Extra.” Her words have stayed with me ever since.